Falling in Love: 20’s versus 30’s

The older I get, the more I can relate to all the characters in Sex and the City better and better, especially Charlotte and Carrie. I didn’t watch Sex and the City until I was in my mid 20’s, but I also didn’t fall in love until then either, which is why I didn’t fully…

To the last one

As they say being someone’s first love is amazing, but to be their last is amazing.  Absolutely, I don’t have this idea that marriage and a long lasting relationship will be like a Disney Movie.  But I know I still believe in it and that it takes a lot of hard work to stay together…

To everyone else

Honesty is the best policy in my book, but no one wants to be rejected, even nicely.  To all the others I dated who may not understand why I let go. I think I have dated enough to last a few lifetimes. I’ve been lucky to always have good dates, but some only make it…

To the man I lusted

I was at a conference at my university and was introduced to P by a friend of a friend. He chatted with me while getting lunch and next thing you know he followed me to the table. I remember thinking I had to run back to work. During those days, I was so busy with…

What I know about having your Heart-Broken

You think you found “the one” or the possibility of them and you can’t help but picture a future.  The house, the kids, and enjoying the simple things in life-like going grocery shopping as a family on the weekends.  You try not to, but things seem to be going well, until one day everything falls…

Dating the Workplace: Thumbs up or thumbs down?

Alejandro had asked about this when Karen’s column first started.  I didn’t forget about this, but put it on hold for little bit until I got a few good life examples. Dating in the workplace is generally considered taboo by most people, especially when it starts affecting your work performance or worst off, you bring…

Dating in the era of the World Wide Web

I know online dating is the newest way to meet people. I’ve known lots of people who met through a bunch of different sites including E-Harmony, Match, and Plenty of Fish, etc…  So many people told me I need to do this, well here is my 2 cents on things and from personal experience from…