As they say being someone’s first love is amazing, but to be their last is amazing. Absolutely, I don’t have this idea that marriage and a long lasting relationship will be like a Disney Movie. But I know I still believe in it and that it takes a lot of hard work to stay together like our parent’s generation.
I don’t know who I’ll end up with and I guess that’s part of the adventure of life. When I will meet you, I hope you know that I’m going to be brutally honest and I’ll be very hard to get. I’ve had my share of relationships and a now I’ve become a little jaded.
I won’t open my heart to you immediately, it’s been broken once too many times. I am not going to integrate you into my life, invite you to events, and introduce you to my friends until things are serious.
I hope we last, but for all the ones that haven’t, I don’t want good memories tainted with remnants of our relationship, I don’t want to have to delete photos of me because you are in it, and I certainly don’t want you to have the opportunity to keep ties with my friends when we end.
I will hesitate to say yes to every date. I will hesitate to trust a word you say including the fact that you say you love me. I’ll question everything and I can promise I’ll be a pain in the ass.
It’s nothing against you, it’s just because I’m completely afraid of being hurt again, but I absolutely still believe in it. You will have to work and prove to me I can trust you with your actions, not your words. Words are meaningless to me, it’s how you treat me.
I won’t be easy to catch, as one date said, I’m like a butterfly. But once you do and I choose to commit, I am the best partner in the world. I am extremely loving, caring and loyal to a fault. I will make every day exciting, fun, and full of adventure. I will budget our finances so we never worry about money, but enjoy life to its fullest.
I am that girl who will have a nice meal ready for you when you come home, but at the same time I have my own career, hobbies, and life. I can make friends with anyone and I truly will be that person who cares about your family. You can take me to any event and I’ll be the life of the party.